Picture This: You have the night off from work and so does your special someone. You made plans to go out for dinner and so far the date is going perfectly. After dinner he walks you to the door and you have an amazing kiss that you don’t want to end. so you invite him inside. But now what?
Whether it is your first time with your boyfriend, your fiancé or your husband I am sure that you definitely want it to be a special experience. Unfortunately there can be so much pressure to make your moment special that it can end up being more awkward than everlasting. Many girls expect their first time to be like fireworks but unfortunately sometimes high expectations only lead to big disappointments. It is definitely a big decision because you have to be confident and ready; keep in mind that your special moment doesn’t have to be serious, it’s supposed to be fun.
Do you remember that scene from Sex and the City when Carrie spends her first night with her new boyfriend Berger? It was totally awkward. In true Carrie fashion she tries to spice it up for their second time with some sexy lingerie and some very cute shoes. However trying too hard to make your first time special can make the moment just as awkward as being unprepared. You may not know when your first time will happen but you can try to be as prepared as possible to make it special.
Make sure that your moment is memorable with these two tips:
- Keep the Lights On. Not the real lights of course, but a little romantic candle light can really help set the mood. Candles smell great (which is always a good thing) and they provide just enough light to see what you are doing but not too much light that you have to be self conscious.
- Smell Does Matter. It may sound disgusting but it’s true. No one wants to spend time with someone who stinks. So ladies (and gentlemen) please shower, shave and put on some perfume. It is proven that men are attracted to sweet smells such as vanilla or fruit scents. Our good friends at Eden Fantasys have a variety of shower gels and fragrance mists that can help you smell your best for those up close and personal moments.